Thoughts on my growth as a Dominatrix and a return to my blog

It’s been a while since I’ve shared my thoughts on Dominance and submission through this blog, but after some deliberation and comments from submissives, I’ve decided to return to more regular posts. Although words often do not encapsulate my experiences with kink and BDSM, I do want to share my journey and my growth as a Dominatrix as well as future goals I have for myself.

My growth over the past 2 years has been profound. My skills in the dungeon have become more fluid and exact with experience, as has my approach to the psychological aspect of play. Over the past two years the variety of submissives who have come to see me has grown, and the activities we pursue have become broader and deeper. In other words, I am growing in my ability to easily create mood, scene flow, intensity, boundary pushing, and an environment that allows a submissive to release and give up complete control to me. My connection to the kink community in Chicago is becoming richer and more rewarding as I get to know other professionals and individuals with decades of experience whom I can continue to learn from and commune with. I have lots of these individuals to thank but in particular those with whom I share the dungeon space. Playing with them and watching them play has been so rewarding in many regards. This past year has been a reflection of these relationships and how they’ve helped me with my goals this year which was bondage skills and professional boundaries. As I have focused on these two goals I feel a confidence that my work has paid off, both for the betterment of my career and with my client and Professional relationships. One goal I have for next year is to solidify my business and presence online. Since I have so many goals for myself it will prove difficult to choose one more to focus on in 2024…

I look forward to sharing more of my growth in kink with future blog posts. More to come…