I have specific expectations of those I engage. Pay close attention to the following pages and you’ll find yourself in My graces.
- On the day of your session, make sure you are hydrated, and have eaten a light meal within an hour or two of your start time.
- Be clean. Make your body ready for Me. Take a thorough shower before you come. This is a sign of respect. Don’t wear cologne as it covers up the smell of your skin, and My arousal.
- Be honest. If there is something that you feel needs to be discussed prior to your session, bring it up.
- Do not show up intoxicated. If I sense that you are, and I probably will, you will forfeit your session tribute, be asked to leave, and not allowed to return.
- Be punctual. If you arrive early you will be made to wait until your start time. If you are late your session time will not be extended.
- Though gifts are not necessary, they are welcome. If you feel it’s important to show deference in this way, see My wish list. A bouquet of flowers is a perfect gift.
- After a session, I welcome honest discussions of topics you’re interested in sharing, as I offer a shame-free space, but do so politely and with an awareness of when your session time ends.
- Be respectful of My play space.
Frequently Asked Questions
Here we are. Are you the type of submissive I’m looking for? Before we begin, let’s cover some important information. At the very least, I’ve found those who agree with My protocol and terms at the beginning of service are more likely to be compatible with My style of dominance. If you are inquiring for a session or training, the following information is for you.
How do I contact you?
-The proper way to initiate contact with Me is through submitting your application. Make sure to look through My website before you do, if you haven’t already. Answer the questions on your application with thoughtfulness and introspection. First impressions are important, and you only get one chance.
How should I address you?
-You may address Me as Mistress.
How should I behave when corresponding with you?
-I expect you to be honest, respectful, and communicative.
What are some ways for me to show that I am indeed serious about pursuing a session with you?
-Reading My website thoroughly, following My protocols, filling out My application with thought and insight, sending a gift from My wishlist to get My attention and make your application stand out.
What is your approach to a session?
-FemDom is a spiritual practice for Me, and is strictly the type of session I offer. I choose which activities we engage in, of course selected from our mutual interests. If you are looking to script-write your own session, I am not the domme for you.
When can we discuss what a session might look like?
-Before I discuss session specifics, screening and references are a must. If you don’t have any references, I require a phone call to touch-base and discuss options. After you have been screened
How do I make an appointment with you?
-A deposit (which will be applied to your session) is mandatory to make an appointment with Me. The remainder of My tribute is due at the start of your session or per My instructions.
When will I get a response from you about my application?
-Practice patience when waiting for My responses. Multiple requests will be ignored. At times I will step away from correspondence to take a break and refresh, but will usually get back to you within 48 hours. Remember, how you choose to interact with Me makes an impression.
When are you typically available for a session?
- My preferred time to play is in the evenings after 7pm. Those who book at least a week out are viewed favorably. This gives me time to think and plot. I am available to session 7 days a week, however same day sessions are available at double My usual session tribute.
What if I need to cancel once I’ve already booked?
- Once I have your deposit and your session time is booked in my calendar, canceling will forfeit your deposit. I understand life happens, and will make accommodations for emergencies.
What if I am unable to session with you in person?
-I also offer phone (NiteFlirt) and LoyalFan video session options for long-distance or long-term training. Fill out the application as you would for an in-person session, but make a note that you are looking for online training.
Where is your play space located?
- My play space is located just southwest of downtown Chicago and is accessible via CTA and the highway systems. Note that my play space is not wheelchair accessible and located on the second floor.
For those seeking long-term service, training, and collaring:
- For me, these types of relationships develop organically over years and is a mutually agreed upon arrangement for both the submissive and myself. I take the process seriously. Connection, communication, mutual respect, and chemistry are a few prerequisites for service of this kink. It is not based on looks, age, income, physical abilities, or gender. It’s about energy and I welcome all submissives who want to journey with me in this way.